The idea that you can worry today
and someday in the future you will be happy is the one that induces all your
suffering!
We have been conditioned to believe that
happiness comes from all our external reference points and is subject to
certain conditions being fulfilled. I will be happy IF I get a job. I will be
happy IF I get money. I will be happy WHEN I get a good companion. I will be
happy WHEN I get to sell my property. The IFs and WHENs in our Life are the
ones that cause us unhappiness.
The very logic that we will be happy upon
reaching a milestone means that if we don’t reach it, we will be unhappy. And
the human mind is such a creation that when one want is met, one milestone is
attained, it will want more, and want to conquer another milestone. So, there
is a perpetual chase that we are on, and therefore, that’s precisely why we
remain perpetually unhappy. As individuals, as families, as communities, as
nations, as a world and as a race!
Bhutan, the tiny Himalayan kingdom, has
made significant moves to change this thinking at a national level. It introduced,
a couple of years ago, a measure called Gross National Happiness (GNH), in lieu
of GDP, which focuses on what it believes are four contributors to a nation’s
happiness levels: sustainable economic development, conservation of the
environment, preservation of culture and good governance. But these four
aspects prima facie may mislead. In reality, Bhutan’s GNH survey asks people
simple questions like ‘How many people can you count on for help in case you
get sick? How often do you talk about spirituality to your kids? When did you
last spend time socializing with your neighbors?’. These are questions that
apply to you and me too. And it’s high time we ask them and several more.
What Life will teach you, if it hasn’t taught
you already, is that by choosing to save ‘being happy’ for another day, you are
actually postponing living. Important too is the fact that you need nothing to
be happy. You just must be willing to be happy. Happiness is not dependent on
any circumstance. Nothing can really make you unhappy UNLESS you allow it to! So, please don’t put off being happy for another day.
Because, you never know, tomorrow may never come!
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