Just as it is in the English language that A precedes B, so it is in
Life that Acceptance precedes Bliss!
Bliss has been marketed, over the centuries that human civilization has
been around, as something that has to be pursued, sought for and found. In
reality though Bliss is always available, 24x7, provided you are tuned in. Tuning
in simply requires Acceptance of what is and not wishing what could be or
should be or fearing what would be. Unfortunately, a large mass of humanity is
wedded to what could be, should be and would be, and never really relates to
what is. Therefore, Bliss is projected as something that is difficult to attain
and something that has to be worked hard for! Resultantly, Bliss has a bit of a
lousy reputation. To most people I guess it is like the Indian Chartered
Accountancy exams, critical to appear for and useful in one’s career, but
difficult to prepare for and almost impossible to clear in the first few
attempts!
Since most of us are logically driven, let’s take a simple example. 2+2 =
4. This is what we have been taught. And this is what we have understood it to
be. Also, what we eventually learned and found to be true too. Now, we accept
that 2+2 CAN ONLY be 4. So, this Acceptance delivers us Bliss in that context.
It is that simple. Just imagine how vexed you will be if you had worried about
what 2+2 could be or should be or would be. Isn’t even that thought
preposterous and unnerving? Think of someone trying to prove to the world that
2+2 could be 5 or should be 5 or would be 5! Now, think similarly of a
situation in any other context of your Life. You get it? Focus on what is.
Accept it. You will experience Bliss__then and there__in a nano-second.
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| Afzal Guru |
Over the last couple of days I have learned a very important lesson from
Afzal Guru, who was convicted in 2002 by a special Prevention of Terrorism Act
court in the attack on the Indian Parliament in December 2001 and was hanged in
Tihar Jail on Saturday, February 9th. Even before I share what I
learned let me clarify that I am not opinionating on his actions, or the judgments
of the various Indian courts including the Honorable Supreme Court, or on the
President of India’s rejection of his mercy petition on February 3rd
this year, or the secrecy with which his execution was carried out. I am also
not opinionating here in favor of or against capital punishment. I am here to
share with you what I believe I have learned from Afzal Guru’s last day in
Life. My learnings are based on what I have pieced together from media reports.
The Hindu’s Gaurav Vivek Bhatnagar,
in his detailed account, quotes a jail official as saying that Guru was the
most ‘calm and composed’ of all the 10 prisoners, he (the official) has seen in
his career, who have been walked to the gallows at Tihar. Guru apparently talked
of the similarities between Islam and Hinduism__having been well versed with
both the Holy Quran and the four Vedas. In his last hour, an official described (to
The Hindu) Guru as being ‘joyful’, greeting each of the jail staff by their
first names and saying ‘al vida’ (good bye in Urdu) to the
executioner, looking him in his eyes, before the black cloth was drawn over
him! Importantly, reports The Hindu, “Another
difference between Afzal and others who were executed for terrorist crimes
terrorists, the official said, was that while almost all others had made
religious or political cries before being hanged, Afzal just walked the last
100 steps from his cell to the gallows as he normally would and went away
wishing those around him.” Today’s Times
of India quotes a jail source, sharing broadly the content of the personal
letter that Guru wrote to his wife Tabassum, who lives in Sopore in Kashmir: “It
was an extremely personal letter where he told his wife to take care of their
son and not agonize over his death. In very gently worded language, he said
that she should remain strong for their son and not give in to despair. As
ever, Guru was calm and dignified in his parting words.”
My learnings:
- Right or wrong, whether you are committing
it or whether you are being subjected to it, has NO relevance in the realm
of what is. It is only what it is, AS it is!
- Only Acceptance of what is, irrespective of
who caused it, can heave you up from the abyss of suffering and deliver to the
altar of bliss!
There can be several arguments in favor of Guru and against him. Contesting
his execution and celebrating it. Mourning the lack of human decency in the
manner in which his execution was carried out with no intimation to his family;
to saying his family too deserved to experience the pain that his purported
actions caused to people affected by them. But I am inviting you to rise above
all that. A simple question needs consideration. How many of us will have the
ability to be detached from our worldly moorings when death comes calling,
especially when we KNOW that the end is upon us? Guru’s ability to have accepted
his reality__again, I repeat, irrespective of any judgment of his deserving of
it or otherwise__led him to his bliss which the jail authorities saw as his
being ‘joyful, calm and composed’!
So live with and love what is. Don’t try to avoid it or resist it. Open
your eyes and see your reality. Accept it with humility, compassion and love __
irrespective of who is responsible for this reality. The moment you Accept your
reality, you will be, and in, Bliss!
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