Life’s arduous situations
can break you physically, can make you immobile, can cripple you – but they
cannot break your spirit, they cannot puncture your conviction, if you simply choose
to remain strong from within! But how do you remain strong from within when
there’s absolutely no respite from the outside? Say, when your Life is hanging by
a thin thread owing to a terminal health condition, or when you are caught in a
legal maze and there’s no way out, or when your business has gone bust and you
simply don’t have any money to even meet your daily needs, or when your
separation from your spouse has drained you emotionally, financially,
physically and you have lost your will to live? Where do you draw strength from
in such, and other debilitating, circumstances, where you are consumed by fear,
self-doubt and hopelessness?
Interestingly, you must
leverage your fear to gain courage. Courage is not the absence of fear. It is
what you get by looking your fear in the eye, by accepting it, and deciding to
face it. In reality, a courageous person is also fearful of consequences that
logically appear to be on the horizon. But while she or he is fearful from
within, she or he is able to pull herself or himself together on the outside. A
coward, on the other hand, is both fearful from within and on the outside. But
if you can leverage your courage, while becoming more aware, you can attain
fearlessness. And fearlessness is not an outward emotion. It is the complete attainment
of freedom from fear – within! That will happen, that can happen, only when you
realize the true nature of your inner being. When you know that your soul is untouchable,
unbreakable and immortal.
Let’s understand this
better. All the world’s scriptures talk of this truth. Yet why do you still
fear things, people, events in your Life, despite perhaps, knowing and
believing this doctrine to be true? Because you haven’t allowed your inner
being, your soul, to experience this truth. Examine all your fears. They are
always about losing all that you already know as impermanent – your job, your
money, your health, your relationships! What kind of intelligence are you, the
much educated you, displaying when you are fearful of threats to any of these
impermanent aspects of your Life? Someone says you will die because of your
health condition – and you are afraid of death? Someone says she will leave you
for whatever reason – and you are afraid of losing her? Someone says you will
be sacked for non-performance – and you are scared of unemployment? Someone
says you will be convicted and sentenced – and you are afraid of imprisonment?
But aren’t you already imprisoned, held hostage, by your fear(s)? Think deeply
about this. Everything about your Life so far and the rest of your Life will be
taken away from you sooner or later. If it is the fear of losing all that you
hold on to that’s keeping you anxious, agonized and fearful, then know that
your fears are fully justified. What you fear most will surely happen to you.
Sooner or later. Including your death! It is only when you experience this
realization, this awakening, at the core of your inner being, in your soul,
will you be free from fear. Will you be fearless from within. Will you be free.
Review whatever’s making
you insecure. Focus on what you fear. And peel away each fear by asking
yourself, ‘So what if this (that which you fear most) happens?’ When you get an
answer to this question, ask yourself this question again, in the context of
your answer, and so on. Keep going until you have no more answers. For
instance, ‘What will happen after I die?’ does not have an immediate known answer.
Yes, conjecturally, from what the scriptures tell us, the answer could be that ‘your
soul is set free’. And so what if the soul is set free? Or if it is trapped
somewhere, someplace? Will it matter to the person that you are currently?
Since it won’t, why labor over your fears? So, whatever be the situation
confronting you just now, don’t resist it, simply accept it for what it is. And
know that since your spirit can never be broken or taken away from you, anything
that’s happening to you, therefore, is not at all relevant! So be fearless. Be
free!
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