Keep Life simple – in any situation,
be prepared for the worst and hope for the best. You will then be free from
worry!
I simply love a joke that Osho, the Master,
used to narrate. A doctor calls his patient to give him the results of a
crucial medical test. “I have some bad news and some worse news,” says the
doctor. “The bad news is that you only have 24 hours to live.” “Oh no,” says
the patient. “What could possibly be worse than that?” The doctor replies, “I
have been trying to reach you since yesterday.” Osho says the best way to live
is to accept that, often times, even the worst can – and perhaps will – happen
to us!
It is a lack of this acceptance that causes
us to cower in fear, insecurity, anxiety and worry. The human mind is very
intelligent. It will paint all possible scenarios and outcomes in any event
which is governed by the possibility of uncertain outcomes. Some of these
outcomes may cause you to feel insecure and fearful. For instance, when someone
is in hospital and the prognosis is hardly encouraging, your mind will project
outcomes varying from a miraculous recovery to an inevitable loss. Every time
you want to believe in a miraculous recovery, dark possibilities of prolonged
hospitalization, perhaps a comatose state and even death will arise within you.
When you fear those possibilities that you don’t want to accept, or even
consider, you are allowing worry to consume you. You are feeding your fears.
The best way to deal with this situation is to be stoic about it – be prepared
for whatever you fear the most, in this case, possibly, death. And yet, hope –
and if you like to, pray – for a miraculous recovery. This way you will be free
from fear, anxiety and worry. And that freedom will give you the opportunity to
focus on providing your patient the best possible care.
Remember some problems in Life cannot be
solved. There’s no point worrying about them. And there’s no point worrying
about those problems which you can solve either. So, intelligent living is all
about living worry-free. Think about it: if worry can solve problems, or if it
can heal cancers, or if it can get people jobs, or if it can prevent break-ups
or if it can eliminate death from our lives – then wouldn’t the world be a much
happier place than it is? Because, aren’t a huge majority of people on the
planet investing their every waking moment in worrying? The truth is that
worrying gets us nowhere. Quit worrying. Be
ready to face the worst in Life and yet believe that the best will happen to you.
There’s no other way to live happily!
I am a big follower of your blogs and everything you write makes total sense .Thank you !!!
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