The concept of good health immediately points to our
physical condition. But many of us are carrying too much weight in our minds – excess
emotional baggage, born out of past experiences and anxieties about the unborn future.
Unless we offload them, we can’t make much progress in Life!
The human mind is always engaged in thoughts.
It’s like a freeway. Thousands of thoughts keep coming on that freeway. And most
of these thoughts pertain to anger, hatred, fear, insecurity, jealousy, grief,
guilt, sorrow and very few deal with inner peace and joy. Resultantly, each
day, we are carrying the excess emotional baggage of several debilitating negative
thoughts. Just like a flight agent will charge you for excess baggage, you have
to pay a price for your emotional baggage too in Life. And that price is
through a challenged physical and/or mental condition – diabetes, hypertension,
stress, depression, insomnia and what not!
The way to offload your excess baggage is to do
two things: 1. When you wake up every morning focus your attention on the day
ahead for a few minutes and remind yourself that you will not bring any of the
past or the future into your day. 2. Before you go to bed focus your attention on
a peaceful night’s sleep and remind yourself that you will not bring any of
your past or the future into your night. This could include reminding yourself
about anything that’s going on in your Life – from a relationship issue to a
fear of someone or something that’s gnawing at you to anger over a business
deal or an insult someone has heaped on you to anxiety over losing a job…whatever.
Whether you pray daily or not (depending on your religious preferences), do
this twice daily, religiously. Watch yourself slowly, over just a few days,
anchoring in inner peace.
This practice is adapted from an ancient Zen
story.
Two monks, one of them in his 60s and the other
in his 20s, were once travelling together along a mountain road. A heavy rain
was falling. Coming around a bend, they met a lovely girl in a silk kimono and
sash, unable to cross a small stream that was overflowing. The current was
ferocious. And obviously the pretty young thing was scared she would be washed
away should she step into the water.
“Come on, girl,” said the younger monk. Lifting her on his back, he carried her
across the stream and set her down on the other bank.
The older monk was aghast at what had happened. Monks were not to touch women
under any circumstances. He angrily crossed the stream and grunted several
times to see if the younger chap would notice his discomfort. He did not speak
again until late that night when they reached the monastery. He no longer could
control himself. “We monks don't go near females,” he said. “It is forbidden by
our monastery’s law. Why did you do that?”
“Sir,” said the young monk, “I left the girl there, by the riverside. Are you
still carrying her in you?”
This lifetime is too short to be weighed down
by emotional baggage. So, as much as you would focus on your physical health,
focus also on losing, or offloading, the weight you carry around in your mind. When you travel light, you travel far, and travel
comfortably!
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