Gratitude is magical. But only when we look back and see
how far we have come in Life. Only when we look at our NOW and see what we have
despite whatever we don’t have. And only when we look at tomorrow with a sense
of hope.
Remember that even the ability to hope is not
stemming from our own abilities. It is coming because we are blessed with that
sense of hope by creation. I remember this definition of blessing somewhere. It
goes somewhat like this: “If you woke up this morning with more health than illness,
you are more blessed than a million who will not survive the week. If you have
never experienced the danger of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the
agony of torture or the pangs of starvation, you are ahead of five million
people around the world. If you are able to walk around in your country without
fear of harassment, arrest or torture of death, you are more blessed than
several hundred million people in the world. If you have food in your
refrigerator, clothes on your back, roof over your head and a place to sleep,
you are richer than 75% of the people in this world. If you have money in the
bank, in your wallet and spare change in a dish someplace, you are among the
top 8% of the world’s wealthy. If your parents are still married and alive, you
are very rare.” How true. It is this spirit that gratitude, or
thanksgiving, celebrates.
Thanksgiving does not mean waiting for the last
weekend of November each year to say your thanks for all that you are blessed
with. Thanksgiving must be a daily celebration. Much as we postpone happiness,
we postpone gratitude as well. We have in fact made gratitude conditional to our
wants being met. I can be grateful if I get what I want, has become the excuse
we subconsciously keep giving ourselves.
Remember that Life acts in ways beyond our
comprehension. Yet every now and then you will find people who are grateful to
Life for the opportunity they have to serve humanity. These are folks who rise
above their current realities and problems and look at themselves as solution
providers, enablers, who serve because another’s need is more than their own.
If Mother Teresa is an ultimate example of selflessness, let us also know that
there is a serving saint dormant in each of us. That saint within us will
become awakened only when we practice gratitude. In the Bible, the disciple
Paul instructs, “In everything we give thanks.” What he means is that it is
impossible to know the outcome of each event in our Life. But if we
remain grateful for each moment, each experience that we live through, we will find
ourselves being happy and peaceful with whatever is.
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