Prayer in the purest sense is an expression of gratitude for all
that you have and is an offering, of anything, including yourself, to the
Universe.
I know someone who is never available for any
conversation or meetings. Every time we try to connect with him he’s either at
work (which is for about 5 hours a day) or he is performing poojas, worshipping. He’s runs a small
business and by his own admission, performs 8 prayer rituals a day, in three
spells, over 12 hours. Is he happy, I asked him one day. “Hardly. Business is
tough. A lot of money is stuck with debtors. I am continuously in prayer trying
to seek a way out,” he said.
To each, his or her own way. Especially in
matters concerning faith and prayer. But Zen offer a beautiful perspective on
prayer. And it is worth understanding and thinking about.
Zen Buddhism says that true prayer is when no
petition, no wish, is made, when no assistance is sought, but when mindfulness
is practised. Through such practice, you offer whatever you have, a flower, an
incense stick, or maybe even yourself, to something higher than yourself. What
can be and is greater than you? Creation. Creation is the higher energy. So,
offering yourself to Creation, makes you be one with the Universe. When you
offer yourself you are expressing your gratitude for your creation and
everything that you have. You are saying – “You created me. Thanks. I am
offering everything I have, mindfully, consciously, with all my being, to you.”
That’s when you truly unite with the Universal energy and are soaked in its
brilliance and abundance.
The popular notion that prayer is an appeal to
an “external, invisible” God is a by-product of how religion has come to be
practised over many centuries. Maharishi Patanjali had demystified this in one
of his works, perhaps at the beginning of the Common Era, where he equated God
to be a mere clothes peg. Just as you would hang a coat on a clothes peg on the
wall, we have been taught to pray looking to a “non-existent” God. He says, God
is an invention, because, if God isn’t there, who will you pray to? But just as
you would have learnt to hang your coat elsewhere if there were no clothes peg,
you must learn the value of prayer, and develop the ability to pray, in the
purest, truest sense. When you pray, as a means of complete surrender to Creation,
then you don’t need a God, you are the prayer and you are one with who you pray
to. God, he says is for beginners. Like when you are learning cycling, you need
the small wheels on either side of the bicycle’s rear wheel to help you
balance. But once you have mastered cycling, you don’t need those two small
wheels jutting out – you discard them and that helps you ride freely. So, it is
with prayer. The more you learn to pray, unconditionally, humbly, as a
thanksgiving, the more peaceful you become.
True prayer is totally non-ritualistic and
non-demanding. It imposes no conditions. It asks for nothing from you – not
your time, not your offerings. You don’t need to fast nor do you need to give
up or abstain from anything! It is not what you do out of fear (that God will
punish you if you don’t pray) or out of greed (I want this or that – grant me
my wish!). It is always about being in the moment. The moment that you choose
to offer your gratitude to Creation for all that you have and are endowed with
– that moment itself is your prayer. You can be anywhere in that moment – you
could even be seated on the potty! Also, there is no price to be paid in prayer
and there are no rewards to be claimed. When you pray, you
pray. And that prayerful moment, when gone through with all humility and
gratitude, is itself the reward, the treasure, the fortune!
Thanks for this post Avis sir - a prayer however small it be has its strength :) perhaps as you said being thankful and expressing gratitude for what we are and where we are - is the best prayer!
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