Stay
anticipating and welcoming the possibility of an exciting adventure and you
will never be in grief in Life. On the other hand, you will be able to feel and
be the bliss in each moment.
What
is a sudden health diagnosis: a cancer or any other debilitating disease? It is
an adventure. What is a job loss? An adventure. What is a broken relationship?
It’s an adventure. You call something an adventure when it is an experience
that you have not been through before. Almost all the time, since you and I were
born, we have been encountering Life at its own terms. One surprise after
another. But we see it in a linear fashion. We see our Life go through only
these stages: from birth to starting school; starting
school to finishing school (pre-school to high-school); starting an academic
course to qualifying for a college degree; starting a job to starting a family;
finishing actively raising a family and caring for children to retiring from a
job, starting retirement to reaching death. So, while are essentially flowing
with Life, we think we are in control. Surely, a lot of these stages apply to
almost anyone who is capable of reading this post now. But if we look deeper,
peeling off layer after layer in each stage, we will notice that there have
been so many unforeseen events in each stage. The bigger news is also that we
have been able to overcome each of them and get to where we are today. So, why
this anxiety about Life’s next surprise or adventure? Why the fear of an
‘unknown’ future?
The other truth about these stages in Life is that each one begins
and each one ends when it must. Much like Life itself. It has begun. So it will
end. So, why this fear of death? When you understand that the two dimensions of
Life that you worry about the most are the most predictable, you will be able
to live intelligently. Consider both dimensions: a. Life will always surprise
you in each moment and b. you and everyone you know will eventually die.
Haven’t you dealt with both dimensions in some measure already? This means you
are capable of living with acceptance of what is and living with insightful
action.
Know that Life is not trying to victimize you. Life is doing its
job. And you must do yours by meeting each situation sportingly. “Security is
mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men
as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than
outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing. To keep our
faces toward change and behave like free spirits in the presence of fate is
strength undefeatable,” wrote Helen Keller (1880 ~ 1968), in 1940, in a poem
called ‘Let us have Faith’.
Indeed.
Don’t expect any more security from Life than what you already have __ which is
the fact that you are alive, can read this and have most of your faculties
intact. Have the faith that this roller coaster called
Life is a non-stop adventure sport that you can enjoy only if you stay happy
and stay in the now!
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