Be professionally arrogant and
personally humble. Never mix up the two.
Most of our strife at the workplace comes
because we don't put our foot down, we don't say no or we don't even express
our expertise or opinions freely__because we think we are trapped in either
the" boss is always right" syndrome or we prefer following the herd.
Think about your work and career so far deeply. Every time you have found your
work lacking meaning and purpose, and found it to be a burden, the reason would
have invariably been because you didn't feel things were being done right at
work. Either culturally, process-wise or strategically. Favoritism, petty
politics, bickerings, poor quality, delayed meetings, biased appraisals are all
manifestations of things not being "right" in any organization. And
you know always that this is not "right" but never spoke up. You have
all the solutions to whatever ails your team, department or organization. Because
that's what you qualified for __ to know the "right" way of doing
things. But you remain a mute spectator because you are a "good"
worker, a "soft-spoken", "amiable", "humble"
professional.
So instead of being professionally
firm__even being arrogant is fine__you choose to be professionally humble. And
from being an intelligent, skilled, knowledge worker, you become a grumpy,
unproductive, sufferer. You carry your strife home. You put on weight. Your
blood pressure starts rising. You encounter diabetes, cholesterol and several
lifestyle ailments. Slowly, your professional humility turns you into an
individual who's incompetent or at least appears to be. All of this can be
avoided if you see yourself as a subject matter expert. And you stick to the
"right" way of doing things. Whether you are a lathe operator or a HR
manager or a chartered accountant or a bio-chemist or a pilot, you are a
qualified professional. Over years of being in a job, you become a subject
matter expert. Be arrogant with this expertise. When you see something that's
going wrong or not being done the "right" way, speak up. And remove
this fear that you will lose your job because everyone is toeing the popular
line and you don't want to be the only dissenting voice. In my 27 years of
corporate experience, I haven't seen a single professional who spoke up lose
his or her job. But I have seen and still see countless corporate lambs
silently suffer because they feared speaking up.
Think of a situation where you go to a
doctor and complain of chest pain. The doctor refers you to a cardiologist; who
orders scans and concludes that you need a bypass. Can you argue with the
doctor on her diagnosis, can you opinionate, can you tell her that she doesn't
know her business? Well you can't and you won't. Because your Life is at stake
and the doctor is a subject matter expert.
Quite similarly, my dear friend, your Life,
your peace, your joy, is at stake, because you are not recognizing the subject
matter expert in you. Don't mistake your expertise to be your handicap. It is
the most potent weapon in your arsenal. Use it. You will
find bliss at work! Here and Now!
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