Do what makes you come alive – and don’t bother about what
the world has to say.
Many a
time, we make choices cautiously wanting them to be correct and acceptable in a
social context. So, while we may not be entirely happy doing what we have
chosen to do, we end up doing it to maintain our status or wanting to “look
good” among family, friends and peers. This kind of posturing may make us look
socially appropriate but almost always leaves us totally unhappy. Happiness
really is about being able to say and do what you really want to and what you
love doing!
T.M.Krishna
is in the news again. This time for his choice of not wanting to perform in the
December Music Season in Chennai anymore. Obviously his fans are upset. But
there are those too who think Krishna’s lost it, that he’s become arrogant and
that all this “drama” is part of his “radical, sensational” marketing strategy.
Some even term his recent choices and actions gimmickry.
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T M Krishna - in "One with Music" Photo Courtesy - Internet |
I think
everyone’s being judgmental here and in a sense some people are surely being
unfair to Krishna. Undoubtedly Krishna is a public figure, an exceptionally
talented singer with divinity oozing in his craft – so his fans do expect him
to be a certain way. Historically, the Chennai Music Season is the Haj of
Carnatic Music – people give an arm and a leg to perform here. So, it does seem
so very strange and unusual that a singer who grew in acclaim, thanks to the
performances at the Season over the years, should now choose to stay away from
it. The best way to look at Krishna’s choice is to see it exactly the way it is
– as an unusual one! Let’s not color it with any opinion. Also, excuse me, isn’t
there a personal choice that we all have a right to make? Is it necessary that
you must always be wedded to doing things a certain way and in ways in which
everyone else is doing them? I personally feel Krishna’s choice is driven by
his bliss – he is going wherever his music – the music within him – is taking
him. And that is indeed the way to live Life. To be able to do what makes you
come alive. To do what you love doing.
When we
live for social gratification, when we live to “look good”, we are not living –
we are merely existing. We suffer, we feel miserable and we eventually lead
hollow lives. Is there a point in such living? All you have is this one
lifetime. And if you can’t live it the way you want to, doing what you love,
what is the point? As Frank Sinatra sang (‘This
is all I Ask’, April 1965) so beautifully, “And let the music play as long
as there’s a song to sing.” So, whoever you are, be inspired by Sinatra, be
inspired by Krishna, go where your music is taking you, don’t bother about what
the world is saying. Ultimately, it’s
your Life!
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