Just be a witness to your Life; be
an observer. If you choose not to try to control your Life, you will always be
happy and at peace with your Life and yourself!
Here’s a short Zen story that illustrates
this point. It teaches us three new, magical, words that can bring us happiness
now and always. All we need to do is to say them as nonchalantly, as
effortlessly as we would have said “Hello”! Saying these three words in every
situation, in each moment, can deliver peace, meaning and bliss to your Life
instantaneously.
The three words are – ‘Is That So?’
The Zen Master Hakuin Ekaku (1686~1768),
one of the most influential figures of Japanese Zen Buddhism was revered by his
neighbors as one living a pure Life. A beautiful Japanese girl whose parents
owned a food store lived near him. One fine day, the girl’s parents discovered
that she was pregnant. This made her parents very angry. She initially would
not confess who the man__who had got her pregnant__was. But after much forcing,
she, at last, named Hakuin. Horrified, the shocked parents went to the Master,
blamed him, berated and threatened him with dire consequences if he did not
“own” their daughter’s child.
"Is that so?" was all that Hakuin
said, smiling.
After the child was born, it was brought to
Hakuin. By this time he had lost his reputation, as people shunned him for his
“immoral” conduct. The barbs from, and being ostracized by, the people did not
trouble him at all though. Instead, he took very good care of the child. He
obtained milk from some of his more forgiving and tolerant neighbors and
provided for everything else the little one needed.
A year later, the young girl could stand
her own lie no longer. She told her parents the truth - that the real father of
the child was a young man who worked in the local fish market. The mother and
father of the girl were even more horrified this time. They at once went to
Hakuin to ask his forgiveness, to apologize at length, and to get their
grandchild back again.
Hakuin was both forgiving and willing. In
yielding the child, all he said again, smiling, was: "Is that so?"
The moral for all us is to just be like
Hakuin. Let us learn to be just witnesses of whatever happens to us in Life. In
fact, that’s what we really are __ mere observers. In joy or in sorrow let us
not get attached to the events, people and circumstances of our lives. This,
and this approach alone, can guarantee us the happiness that we all crave for,
work hard for, but never really manage to find. True
happiness is being in a perpetual “Is That So” frame of mind. You too can
switch to that thinking right now. It’s a personal choice!
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