You are human first. Your gender,
your religion, your nationality, your qualifications and your income come later
and, quite honestly, don’t matter at all.
Misbah Quadri Picture Courtesy: The Hindu |
This morning’s Hindu
reports the shocking story of a 25-year-old young lady, Misbah Quadri, being
denied accommodation in all of Mumbai just because she is a Muslim! “Mumbai –
of all places?” I thought. If Mumbai has become so parochial, the rest of India
may well be damned! But this is not an isolated story or occurrence. The other
day I was at a friend’s place for dinner. And he openly acknowledged that he
would never rent his apartment to Muslims. He confessed: “Call me conservative
or anti-Muslim, I cannot simply trust people who belong to that religion.” My
friend is educated, widely traveled, does business globally and yet he holds
such a regressive view? Within my own family, I have someone who cannot refer
to Muslims without using an expletive alongside. This is a sad trend and needs
to be condemned with as much intensity as it is being propagated.
When I think about it deeply, dispassionately, I
believe we are finding it convenient to generalize and to hide behind our
insecurities and flawed assumptions. While it is true that most acts of terror in
the world are conducted by Muslims, it is wrong to imagine that all Muslims are
terrorists. Perhaps, people find it simpler to banish an entire community
because they have never tried to – or wanted to – be discerning in their
judgment. Another reason why people cannot understand or appreciate Muslims may
be because of their inscrutable practices, rituals and traditions – from
circumcision to Muharram to the ubiquitous burkha.
But that is no valid argument. Every religion, the way each of us is raised,
every community has its own idiosyncratic methods and beliefs. If you find a burkha restricting women empowerment,
then you should find the Hindu practice of disallowing girl children from
performing the last rites of a dead parent equally restrictive. A sandhyavandanam can be as banal as Muharram
if you don’t understand the significance of either.
I think there are as many reasons to divide
humanity in this world as there are people on the planet. We don’t need to
invent newer ways or choose to alienate a particular community or religion just
because we don’t know or understand someone or something. Those who think they
are very smart in exercising options such as the ones my friend has chosen, or
what building societies in Mumbai have chosen against young Misbah, are
actually sick in their heads and hearts. The very thought that you can
discriminate against someone just because he or she belongs to a particular
community or religion is an act of violence. As Gandhi would say, it is himsa (violence) of the highest order.
It is worse than the acts of terror that kill people around the world each
year. We must drop this tendency to be violent in our thoughts, in our
perceptions, that lead us to discriminate against fellow human beings –
urgently and wholeheartedly.
Fundamentally, let’s remember that there are only
two kinds of people in the world. Humans who practice love and compassion. And
humans who indulge in hatred and violence. If you cannot immediately decide
which category someone belongs to, it is fine. But don’t imagine they belong to
the latter category just because they come from a community that you think is
redoubtable. If you do that, in the absence of valid, irrefutable evidence,
unfortunately, sadly, you will be indulging in himsa too! When you discriminate against someone, you are being
violent in thought. And, to be sure, thoughts can kill – they are like cancer,
chewing away humanity! So, unless you are
one, stop being a ‘thought terrorist’!
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