Goals are important. But being
obsessed with your goal often makes you feel empty and lost when you finally
attain it!
A couple
of days back we watched the much acclaimed Tamil film “Kaakka Muttai” (2014, Manikandan) one more time. The film tells
the story of two kids, brothers, from a slum and their travails to save money
to buy a pizza. When they finally do get to eat a pizza both of them conclude
that they didn’t quite like its taste. The film closes on this note and, as the
credits roll, the best part of the film, a song plays in the background.
Edhai Ninaithom
Adhai Adainthom
Adaintha Pinne
Unmaiyai Naam Unardhom
Asaikku Thaan Alavugal Ilaye
Adhai Thodarnthaal Vaazhkai Thollaiye
Aasaithaan Vendravan Ilaye
Athu Indru Thaan Unarthathu Pillaye
You can
hear the original song here:
The song
composed and sung by G.V.Prakash Kumar, with lyrics by Na Muthukumar, sums up
why Life is sometimes so listless and meaningless despite all the trappings of
material success. The song means that when we chase our desires, our wants, we
often end up attaining them. Only to discover the truth that we feel lost,
empty, unhappy too, with what we have attained! There’s no limit to desires, no
one has ever conquered them, and the obsession to achieve those wants sometimes
makes Life miserable. If you understand Tamil, the simplicity of the lyrics and
GV Prakash’s soulful rendering will uplift your mood.
Hearing
this song, made me reflect on what famous Hindustani singer Pandit Jasraj once
told Shekar Suman on a TV show: “Kamyaabi
ek shitij ki tarah hoti hai. Paas jao to aur door nikal jaati hai.”
Meaning: “Success is like a horizon. You close in on it only to discover that
it has moved farther away!”
The essence
of Na Muthukumar’s and Pandit Jasraj’s perspectives is this: the journey is
more important, in fact it is sacrosanct, than the destination. So, simply, enjoy
the journey more than obsessing with the destination.
Most
people understand this as a call to drop desires and to stop wanting. But how
can you drop desires? Desires are born in the mind. A thought becomes a wish
which becomes a want. So, as long as there is the mind, there will be wants and
expectations. And expectations always bring agony! The better thing to do is to
become more aware of the true nature of Life. Understand that whatever you
desire, want and achieve – name, fame, glory, wealth, power and position – will
not go with you when you die. So why obsess so much over what you can’t take
with you and what can never be yours permanently? This doesn’t mean you should
not be ambitious or competitive or excel at whatever you are good at. It only
means that you must enjoy the process of living more than merely wanting to
achieve a goal.
“Kaakka Muttai” helped me,
yet again, visit a significant spiritual tenet: the journey is always sacred while
the destination has no meaning! I believe the
greatest service we can do to ourselves is to wake up, pause and smell the
roses, drink in the scenery along the road, than worry and agonize about when
and how we will get to our destination.
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