Change, personal transformation, is
possible, when you are not just ready, but willing!
Talk to all those people that have a habit,
a ruinous temptation which they can’t get over. Smoking, alcohol, being a
compulsive skirt-chaser, staying cynical at all times__all these are habits.
Yesterday a friend posted a status on his facebook Page saying there’s this man
who comes jogging to the same park as him every morning. Except that this
person is always on the phone, reviewing the previous day’s sales with his
junior colleague. Shouting, ranting, kicking butt and both experiencing and
expressing a lot of stress in the bargain! My friend concluded in his post that
it doesn’t look like the man is enjoying being the way he is. And perhaps he is
consumed by his occupational challenges. Possibly. In fact, no chain smoker or
alcoholic enjoys being one. Every cynic wants to stop and see the magic and
beauty in everyday Life. They are ready to change. But they are not willing.
Being willing means this: you must accept that you will go through some pain as
you begin the journey to transform yourself. You must know, believe and
motivate yourself that this pain, this change is for the good. Willingness is a
soul-related emotion. Readiness is mind-related. The voice of reason readies
us. But it is our inner voice that makes us willing.
As Richard Bach, the famous American
writer, wrote: “What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master calls
a butterfly!” It is only because the caterpillar is willing, and not just
ready, despite excruciating, life-threatening pain, that it becomes the
butterfly! So, why crawl, as Rumi, the 13th century poet asked us: “Why crawl
when you have been created to fly!” On a cosmic plane, our lifetimes are just
about the lifespan of a butterfly’s! We have been created to enjoy the
beautiful open spaces, and to drink in the pure nectar of Life. Then why do we
crawl? Why are we suffering? The only reason is we are unwilling, even if
ready, for change, for personal transformation. Be sure to encounter pain on
this path! But then, what’s Life,
without some pain, without change!? You can avoid or escape neither. So, go change folks __ for your own good!
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