At every ugly turn that your Life takes, just remember this:
you really don’t know what’s round the bend, so don’t despair, don’t conclude
that Life is unfair, don’t give up. Just flow with Life.
Often times
in Life, events unfold with seeming cold-bloodedness, that leave you socked.
But Life operates on a plane of inner evolution more than what is evident.
Every external event is designed to help you dive deeper to discover yourself,
summon your endless inner potential and for you to awaken to the right way of
thinking, living, working and winning. What we call ‘fate’ or ‘chance’ is
actually a mysterious turn that always delivers a fruitful outcome in the end.
A friend
recently suggested, in a lighter vein perhaps, that motivational speaking (with
an obvious reference to my ability to inspire audiences) is easy. I thought
about it. To churn out nuggets of wisdom perhaps is indeed easy. As easy as it
is for Messi to score a goal or Tendulkar to have hit any of his 100
international centuries! But all ‘easiness’ comes only from endurance. I always
like to clarify that I am more an inspired, motivated speaker than just a
motivational or inspirational speaker. I am inspired from the way Life has
dealt with me and motivated by the way it continues to challenge me. What the
world sees as a post every morning, that invokes soul, provokes thought and
hopefully inspires action, comes from the ability to live in each moment,
fully, drink in the bliss it contains, and learn from the experience. All this,
despite
the external circumstances.
To be
sure, I wasn’t this way at all. Just over 15 years ago, I was a man in a hurry:
angry, foul-mouthed, chewing tobacco and drinking daily. Perhaps, arrogant and
jealous too. Yet I led our consulting Firm well and profitably. We had six
offices, 40 people, and 38 highly satisfied clients across the world. Then,
something happened. From an evolutionary perspective, perhaps, hubris__that
ugly English word!__set in. From a business point of view, a couple of
strategic mistakes happened that led to our Firm going bankrupt and we, as a
family, becoming insolvent. (More on this story and what the experience taught
me is contained in my Book, “Fall Like A Rose
Petal – A father’s lessons on how to be happy and content while living without
money”; Westland, August 2014) It was traumatic. But when I look
back, without that ugly turn, I wouldn’t have been able to understand the value
of this gift called Life. I wouldn’t have been inspired to unravel the meaning
behind the two words: “Intelligent Living.” I wouldn’t have been motivated to
plough on. I wouldn’t have understood what loving and relating, as taught by
Osho, the Master, really meant. I wouldn’t have understood the value of
relationships nor the impermanence of money and Life! I wouldn’t have
experienced the kindness and compassion that is so intrinsic to the human race.
I wouldn’t have learnt my Life’s most important lesson: always “serve”
before you say you “deserve”!
So,
that’s a short autobiography to let you know that Life’s design is indeed as
inscrutable for me as it is for you! Life deals with all of us__similarly. The
events in our lives may still be different, but Life is always leading us to
the same destination. Which is Self-Realization. And
however difficult the road may just be, remember this too: Life’s Master Plan
has no flaws. You will arrive and awaken, just as all of humanity, including
me, has.
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