Living meaningfully is an individual
choice and a personal responsibility.
Yesterday
I saw a post in the Chennai Bloggers Club where a young lady Janani announced
that she has launched a “Make it Meaningful” campaign around her wedding. Her fiancĂ©
and she have invited their family and friends to avoid lavishing them with
gifts and instead donate to the cause of funding the education of 200 children.
I think
the idea is not just innovative and compassionate, it is super cool. I wish
more people take inspiration from this young couple and make their celebrations
meaningful.
Whether
it is a wedding, birthday, anniversary or just about any celebration, gifting
is an integral part of both traditional and contemporary culture. But if you dispassionately
observe the whole process of gifting, it has somehow stopped being aesthetical.
Gifts are, unfortunately, brandished more as status symbols. Who gave what
seems to have overtaken the art of giving. Besides, the big, fat, Indian
wedding has gone beyond being just big and fat – it has become a pompous show
of wealth. So much money – and food – gets wasted at our events in the name of
ceremony and tradition. In a world where so many people die of hunger, where so
many don’t have a roof over their heads and where so many more don’t have the
means to education, all this spend can be better utilized than wasted.
Young
Janani and her fiancé promise us light though. I know of a gentleman who plants
trees on the birthdays of his friends. For several years now, Vaani and I have
been donating to www.rasaindia.org and
to Narayanan Krishnan’s www.akshayatrust.org
on the birthdays, anniversaries or weddings of people that are very close to
us. I am sure several people out there are doing something very similar. The
Bhoomika Trust has a program called www.truegiftsindia.org
where people can choose gifts from Rs.200 to Rs.10000 and above – all funds
gifted will go to the specific needs of participating NGOs. Yet, so much more
public participation and groundswell is required.
Gifting
is not a bad idea. Spending on celebrations is also not a bad idea. But
splurging and wasting precious resources – time, energy and money – definitely
is! Each of us has a responsibility to leave this world a better place than we
found it. And we can do that only by living meaningfully –
starting, well…Oh! Yes! Abhi!
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