Sometimes the best way to respond to a situation is not to respond
at all – not to say anything.
A
friend of mine was recently sacked by his organization. He is yet another old
hand in that organization who has been booted out in the last few months. He
posted a goodbye message on Facebook where he had many people offering him
their sympathies for the ungraceful manner in which his exit was happening. He
simply thanked all of them saying, “There are times when you must remain silent
and simply move on.”
I liked
my friend’s approach to his crisis situation. Offline he told me that indeed he
was hurt with the manner in which his 30-year, meritorious, service record in
the company was overlooked by the new management. But he explained, “What is
the point in talking sense to people who have no ethics and no scruples? There
are only two ways I can respond to them – either accept their golden handshake
or fight their action in court. I decided to take the first approach. That way,
I can be at peace and work on rehabilitating myself elsewhere.”
To not
fight a situation or a scheming detractor does not necessarily mean cowardice.
It means you have chosen not to expend your precious energy on a wasted cause.
Silence is a very strong weapon that most people don’t even realize they have
in their arsenal, let alone them knowing that they can deploy it. To not fight a petty battle is an intelligent choice. To
remain silent in the face of provocation is also often the best form of
aggression.
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