Stay
detached from the outcome of your efforts and you will be at peace. Detachment
really means to be unmoved in any situation – success or failure, victory or
defeat.
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Team India’s Captain Cool, M.S.Dhoni,
reminded us yesterday, yet again, why he is such a rare human being, player and
leader. After India’s comprehensive defeat at the hands of the Aussies in
Sydney in the 2015 ICC World Cup semi-final on Thursday night, Dhoni said: “Of
course we are disappointed not to be in the final, but then only one team can
win. Australia played better cricket today (Thursday). The Cup did not belong
to us. We took it from someone and someone else will take it from us. If we had
played better cricket on this particular day, we would have won." This is the
simplest, most logical explanation anyone can give in any situation like the
one India finds itself in – they played a great World Cup campaign, winning
seven out of seven games until losing in the semi-final. Also, when you do
badly and lose a game, there are only learnings, never justifications. And
finally, staying detached – as Dhoni is and has always been – from the outcome
is the best way to preserve and nurture your inner peace.
Indeed, like sports, Life too is
competitive. But no matter how hard you work, and how ethical you are, there will
be times when you will not get what you want or perhaps even deserve. And there
will be other times when you will be successful. In either situation, stay detached.
Remember this: Life happens through us, never because of us. So, when we
succeed at what we are trying to achieve, stay unaffected by the accolades. And
when you fail at something, or rather when someone else succeeds in your place,
choose again to remain unruffled. In the game of Life, someone will necessarily
have to win. And it need not always have to be you!
To be sure, however, on the spiritual plane,
success and failure, victory and defeat, mean nothing. Everything is transient,
everything is a mere experience, and if you pause to reflect deeply, everything
is an impermanent illusionary experience! So, don’t fall for the bait and get
attached to outcomes – stay detached. In any situation, you have only your
efforts to focus on and count on. Here’s how you deal with your efforts:
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Good efforts and you succeed at
the task – take it easy
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Poor efforts and you succeed at
the task – take it easy
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Good efforts and you fail at
the task – take it easy
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Poor efforts and you fail at
the task – take it easy
Take it easy every which way. Learn every
single time. Remember this too: as Dhoni recounted and the Bhagavad Gita says, “Nothing
belongs to you. And nothing will be with you forever. What is yours belonged to
someone else yesterday and will belong to yet another tomorrow!” So, stay detached. Stay in peace.
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