Don't approach anything that happens
in your Life from sadness.
A loss. Pain. A heart-break. An insult. All
of them are not what we ever want in our Life. And so we respond with shock,
anger and sorrow. But after we get over the initial response, we must develop
the attitude to shift the attention to joy.
Exult in the opportunity that each of those
surprising events has thrown up. A loss always points to a gain in the future.
It has also taught you through your grief what is more valuable in your Life.
You grieve a loss because you attach a value to it. This awakening to the realization
of what's important to you must call for celebration. And joy. If someone
insults you, you must celebrate because you have now the opportunity to live
with an insult. A capability that you never thought existed in you. Again, it
calls for joy! Your spouse tells you that she or he can't carry on in the
relationship with you anymore. Beneath the obvious layer of shock and tears, it
actually opens so many more opportunities to start afresh in Life. To explore
newer horizons rather than be stuck in a bad relationship in grief, in sorrow,
in pain. Joy here means the suffering for both of you has come to an end. Yes
the pain of going through the process of separation will have to be dealt with.
But eventually it too will lead to joy!
What is certain about your Life and mine is
that it will end one day. But interestingly when your Life ends you will not
even know it. Only those who you leave behind will feel sad. And again you will
not know that they are sad! So, in reality, in Life's fairy tale, there are no
sad endings. So, why be sad about the interludes over which
we have no control?
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